The way you are OR the way that you feel you are IS the way that you will see and interpret the world. You also ATTRACT who you are or who you feel you are. The old saying “opposites attract” is not necessarily all true. If you are always attracting the same type of people (and they are not the people that you want to attract) you may need to look DEEP INSIDE yourself to understand who you actually think you are.
In order to attract the people you want to attract; you need to be the person that is attractive to those people. This is where the Attraction Marketing Gurus came from and why they make so much money. They are there to teach you HOW to ATTRACT others both in your business and in your personal life! People do not BELIEVE that they are capable of changing themselves by themselves.
Don’t get me wrong; I am not suggesting that they are not valuable teachers and that for SOME PEOPLE they may be needed. However, if you are the type of person that can be honest and real with yourself (and I believe that all of us have those qualities within ourselves if we give ourselves a chance) then the possibilities are endless and no one needs to help you get to where you want to be other than YOURSELF!
Only you can create your dreams. Only you can truly interpret your life and experiences. What you create in your mind and TRULY believe to be true CAN become your reality. Therefore, your dreams CAN become your world. Keep in mind that your dreams can be positive or negative and this is why it is so important to keep a positive attitude and outlook on life!
Take a moment to think about the top sports professionals. Yes, I agree that you need some talent, but what makes the difference between the winners and the ones that don’t win? The first thing that makes a professional in any industry a number one professional in their field and most importantly is their COMMITMENT and DEDICATION. Without the COMMITMENT to practice, and/or research what they want to achieve combined with the DEDICATION to devote the time and effort to make their dream a reality; how can they expect to reach their goals? The second, and just as important as the first is VISUALIZATION. If you can visualize yourself where you want to be; you will get there! Don’t believe me? Why do racers walk the track before a race? Do you think golfers think about “going in the water” or “going in the hole”? The more that you take your mind “off the task at hand” or the “goal that you have set for yourself” the less likely you are to reach your goals.
Everyone has a different perspective which is based on their life experiences combined with their outlook or point of view. Each person is equally correct in their perspective and each person is equally incorrect in their perspective. Your perception determines both your actions and your results. There is no right or wrong – there is the only reality. BUT REALITY IS WHAT YOU DECIDE IT IS OR WHAT YOU DECIDE IT COULD OR WILL BE!
YOU ARE THE ONLY PERSON THAT CAN DECIDE WHO YOU ARE TODAY, WHERE YOU WANT TO BE IN THE FUTURE, AND CREATE WHO YOU WILL BECOME. WHAT YOU BELIEVE TO BE AND WHO YOU BELIEVE YOU ARE WILL BE YOUR REALITY!